"it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all"
really? then the guy who thought of this must be a real nutter or have a really really tough heart at that. isn't he afraid of heartbreaks? isn't he scared that the other person might just leave him all of a sudden? won't he just sink into a state of melancholy and nostalgia whenever he starts thinking about their past together?(when that person leaves one day that is. after all nothing lasts forever. no one can stay by you forever no matter how hard you or they wish it so.) i mean no one can live on just memories alone! memories are just memories! you can't grasp it, can't hold it, can't embrace it. what's the use of having them? in the end it all boils down to the ultimate heartache you'll get when the person leaves for good. me? i'd rather be a selfish ass than to risk it. don't give a damn about having missed out on something..