yuanyuan and i were chatting on msn 2 nights back and she summarised the first part of our convo into this equation:
21 this year = no boyfriend = no steady partner = no engagement = no marriage = no kids!
SCAARRYYYYY...
so we said we should attempt to find one by this time next year. i.e. introduction of makeup and non-lok-kok clothes. then our guy should sorta fit the description of our ideal kid cause it's "all in the genes" (although i think yuanyuan's one quite hard la. JAPANESE?? go japan and find. hopefully he's non-abusive...). but anyways, we went around trying to survey guys on what's the ideal chio. we got terrible answers- "no particular features, all add up together chio can already", "casual but pretty", or "very subjective leh". wahhh liiiiaaaooooozzzzz... either too vague or too politcally correct. but leon mentioned something that he felt was the most important and which i thought was also veryveryvery sweet- "and can enable me to fall for her many many times". wahhhh.. not bad. can i change my 1st criteria from "having the smarts" to "having a very big heart"? then i can fall for him many many times as well.